15 May Susan’s Sound Advice #195
A few years ago, I remember someone saying to me that we are human magnets. This morning, I remembered that analogy while thinking about a very negative and toxic person that I encountered recently. There are many negative people in this world. They carry with them negative “vibrations” which, if we allow, will attach to us like a magnet. But, let’s realize that it is we who are the magnets, not the other person. By allowing ourselves to have a negative reaction, we are attracting negativity into our own life, resulting in stress and loss of sleep. If we ignore these negative influences, go on with our lives and stay with positive people and positive thoughts, we are allowing positivity to “attach” to our magnet. Some people call this the law of attraction. Whatever we call it, it really works. It’s not always easy, but remember that it’s not about the other person or the situation. It’s about how you react to the situation and whether you want to allow their negative energy to repel or attract you.