
13 Jul Susan’s Sound Advice #231
Can you remember a time that you had to deal with a negative, vindictive and difficult person? When was the last time someone said something with the intention of hurting you? Unfortunately, these people are everywhere and can’t always be avoided. They want to get a reaction which, in turn, gives them power. It’s very easy to want to attack back, but don’t. When we react to negativity, we are disturbing our own inner being and creating pain within ourselves. No good can come out of reacting against someone who is bent on negativity. It will only trigger more anger and additional reaction from that person. Who needs this negative “downward spiral”? These people drain our energy. They are deeply unhappy people who want to see you down in the dumps so that they are not down there alone. Be aware of this. If you want to live a life with less stress, delete these people from your life. Avoid any interactions with them as much as you are able to. It’s your choice who you choose to allow into your “space”. Stay around people with the qualities that you admire: positive, peaceful, encouraging and dignified. I guarantee you will feel washed, rinsed and cleansed! ©susankorwin
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